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There's Nothing Wrong With Being An Average Crocheter (Or Knitter)!

Embracing It


Social media has been instrumental in my crochet journey. It has provided access to countless patterns, inspiration, and a wonderful community of like-minded individuals. But today, I want to talk about something that is easy to overlook in the crochet world—the beauty of being average.

The Pressure of Perfection

We live in a world where we're constantly exposed to carefully curated images of perfection. Whether it's beautifully organized yarn stashes, intricate handmade garments, or impressive weekly project recaps, it's easy to feel like we aren't doing enough. But here’s the truth: what we see online is just a small snippet of someone's reality.

It’s okay if your yarn room is messy five minutes after you clean it. It’s okay if you only finish one project a week while someone else completes five. The curated perfection of social media is not the standard—it’s a highlight reel. If you'd like to follow me on Instagram, you get real life!

It’s Okay to Use Affordable Yarn

There’s no denying the beauty of hand-dyed, luxurious yarns, but if you primarily use affordable acrylic yarn from big box stores, that’s perfectly fine. Yarn accessibility and budget constraints are real concerns. Using budget-friendly yarn doesn’t make you any less of a crocheter. You don’t need the most expensive materials to create something beautiful and meaningful. Find my favorite budget yarn HERE.

Crocheting at Your Own Pace

It’s easy to compare yourself to others who seem to churn out project after project. But crochet is not a competition. If you’re a slow crocheter, that’s okay. Whether you complete one beanie in a week or an entire set of garments, you are still a crocheter. The joy of the craft is not in the speed but in the process.

Following Patterns is Just as Valid as Designing Your Own

There’s a misconception that every skilled crocheter must also be a pattern designer. That’s simply not true. If designing patterns doesn’t bring you joy, then don’t force it. Following tried-and-tested patterns is just as valid as creating your own. You don’t have to reinvent the wheel to enjoy crochet.

You Don’t Have to Master Every Technique

There’s always something new to learn in crochet, but that doesn’t mean you need to push yourself into mastering every single technique. It’s perfectly fine to stick with familiar stitches and patterns that bring you joy. Not every project has to be a learning experience. Sometimes, it’s nice to crochet something simple and stress-free.

You Don’t Need Expensive Tools

Crochet hook collections are beautiful, but if you have one reliable hook that works for you, that’s all you need. While high-end ergonomic hooks are great, budget-friendly options work just as well. Your crochet success is not dependent on the tools you use—it’s about what feels comfortable and enjoyable for you. Finf a great set of affordable ergonomic hooks HERE.

Not Every Trend is for Everyone

Trendy yarn colors and popular crochet items come and go, but you don’t have to follow them. If you prefer neutral tones over bold and bright colors, that’s okay. If you’re not into amigurumi or intricate lacework, that’s okay too. Your crochet style should reflect what makes you happy, not what’s trending.

Your Yarn Stash Doesn’t Need to Be Huge

Seeing large yarn hauls on YouTube can make it seem like you need an extensive collection, but that’s not the norm. Many crocheters buy yarn with intention and work through their stash before purchasing more. You don’t need shelves full of yarn to be a dedicated and passionate crocheter. If you're interested in some mistakes I made while building my yarn stash, watch this VIDEO.

Embracing Your Crochet Journey

At the end of the day, being an “average” crocheter is perfectly okay. There’s no need to compare yourself to curated social media feeds or feel pressured to be more than you are. Crochet is about joy, creativity, and relaxation—not perfection. Whether you crochet slowly, use affordable yarn, or prefer simple patterns, you are still a valuable part of the fiber arts community.

So, embrace your crochet journey as it is. Be proud of your work, no matter how big or small, and most importantly, enjoy the process. Because at the end of the day, that’s what truly matters.

Are you an “average” crocheter? You're not alone, if you are!

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